Love, What is Love?

Posted by: Asa Don Brown on August 17, 2012 1:49 pm

“True love is the best thing in the world, except for cough drops.”

                  ~ William Goldman, The Princess Bride

 First of all, I am a hopeless romantic.   On August 16, 2012, I will have the pleasure of celebrating my 15th wedding anniversary to my beautiful bride, my vulpine lover, my best friend, and the mother of my precocious, charming, and sometimes mischievous children.  

During the past 15 years, I have spent countless days gaining new insights into this person that I have come to know as my wife.  Do not get me wrong, we have had our emotional upheavals and times of trials and tribulations, but overall, my wife is unmistakably my best-friend. 

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What Do You Tell Others (and Yourself) With Your Email Signature?

Posted by: Jeffrey Landine on August 15, 2012 12:58 pm

The following mottos were included as part of the automatic signatures on emails sent to me in the past few weeks:

“The surest sign that intelligent life exists elsewhere in the universe is that it has never tried to contact us.” – Bill Watterson (Calvin and Hobbes)

“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”    ~ Maria Robinson

Bloom where you are planted!

John and I have been talking about the development of identity and the relevance of this development to vocational decision-making.  I have been referring fairly often to a recent book by Mark Savickas entitled Career Counselling and in it he describes, at length, a narrative approach to the recognition of vocational identity.  Mottos are often adopted as a form of identity crystallization providing advice to one self about who I am and who I want to be.  When I got a new cell phone, setting it up for the first time, the phone offered me the opportunity to add a “Greeting message” which would become visible on the screen every time I started the phone.  Now when I start my phone I am reminded to “Persist”.  Persistence is a characteristic that I value, and it is one that I believe has helped me greatly in my academic and professional life.

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Beyond Compassion Fatigue: The Phoenix in Flight

Posted by: Siri Brown on August 15, 2012 12:15 pm

When first embarking on the adventure and honour of helping others as a professional, credentialed, certified therapist, it is all you can do to contain your excitement as you await each new client.  Brimming over with theories, interventions and techniques, the beginner counsellor knows, in their bones, that they can make a difference. It is a wonderful, fulfilling knowing and despite the occasional bouts of doubt and moments of uncertainty, it is an amazing time in a counsellor’s career, and I reveled in it as I embarked on my dream profession.

So what happened to me? To many of us? You know, to our dreams of helping hundreds of hurting clients and becoming self-actualized in the process? Instead, many of us have found ourselves 10, 15, 20 years down the road burned out, weary, depressed and doubting. Even wondering, in our darker moments, whether counselling really helps anyone in the long run anyway. Not a fun place to be. And not a place one has to stay, either.  As one of my favourite colleagues likes to point out, “suffering is optional”.

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The Power of Personal Responsibility Over Feelings of Victimization

Posted by: Maritza Rodriguez on August 15, 2012 10:56 am

Responsibility is a very important trait when it comes to emotional health. Personal responsibility can empower a person to take control over all aspects of his/her life and as result, circumvent the painful role of becoming a victim.

Feeling as if one is a victim is like feeing like all of the air has been punched out of you. Desperation sets in as you wait and hope for that inhalation of oxygen. In turn, desperation brings with it feelings of hopelessness and/or helplessness. This state further increases feelings of negativity, which seep into other aspects of your life. It can impact your ability to make good decisions, increase conflicts in relationships and cause financial hardships, just to name a few consequences.

Feelings of victimization can entangle a person in a negative web that appears bigger and stronger than the person and this gives an illusion that you are trapped. It is a very dangerous place for a person to be because it can either lead to resignation or, on the flip side, aggressive toward self or others.

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Textish Counselling – Part 3

Posted by: Dawn Schell on August 15, 2012 10:40 am

I’ve been writing, reading and thinking a lot about the use of text messaging in counselling situations.   Some of the articles I referred to in the past two blog posts discussed the need to develop policies and procedures for preserving privacy and confidentiality in text messages.  

Let’s start at the beginning – the CCPA Code of Ethics states “Counselling relationships and information resulting therefrom are kept confidential” & “Counsellors follow all additional ethical guidelines for services delivered by telephone, teleconferencing, and the Internet, including appropriate precautions regarding confidentiality, security…”.  (Sections B2 & B17)

I don’t have the answers. Just some thoughts about the issue as a whole.

I have an iPhone and Apple tells me my messages have end-to-end encryption, so “your messages stay safe and private”.  Likely that’s true of other devices as well.

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Parent Like You Run the Country….Which Country Though is the Question?

Posted by: Nicole Maier on August 7, 2012 4:09 pm

Without making a giant “PC” blunder and risking offending any one ethnicity, different countries are ruled, lead or perhaps left to their own devices, in their own unique way. Some countries are riddled with anarchy, hostility, laissez faire attitudes, impoverished, or are down right dangerous places to live.

Or? They are cohesive, unified, successful flourishing pieces of the planet.

This entry is not about depicting the political landscapes of today or why or why not those countries are thriving or not thriving. Rather, the parallel that I am making is how leadership style directly impacts the population.

So you, the parent(s) are the leader(s), oh, tangent, how good would it be though to have 2 equal top leaders for every country, male/female. Yes I am aware, I am now making a real PC blunder here, I am slanting this towards the conventional relationship being a heterosexual one, this is not my intention, the reference was only to highlight the potential to have a man and a woman lead the country or world, just saying…

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The Emerging Field of Psychotraumatology in Canada

Posted by: Linda AK Thompson on August 7, 2012 4:05 pm

Reflections of a Trauma Nurse/Counsellor’s Academic, Research & Clinical Experiences

Introduction to Psychotraumatology

I have decades of reflections I am ready to share concerning my academic, research and clinical experiences as the trauma nurse who became a trauma counsellor.  However, a brief introduction into the emerging field of Psychotraumatology, as experienced by myself across North America, but mostly in Canada, is a good place to start. 

I presented similar versions of the following brief, introductory material.  The first was an in-service in acute psychiatry (Thompson, 2004), and the second was as a topic of interest, Harmony Project:  Woman’s Support & Enhancement Group (Thompson, 2005), attended by survivors with diagnosed, Complex, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD; Herman, 1972).

From 1985 to 1996, I completed all requirements at-a-distance and obtained a PhD in Psychology.  My dissertation was named Psychological Traumatology and a decade passed before the American Psychological Association (APA) founded Division 56 – Trauma Psychology (APA – 2006).  In Canada in 1989, when I established a private practice to provide trauma, exit and grief nursing/counselling services, I was perceived as eccentric and fringe, especially when serving client(s) engaged and in the midst of volatile and hostile agendas and the use of coercive persuasion (Lifton, 1961). 

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Teachers and Their Classrooms

Posted by: Asa Don Brown on July 30, 2012 2:42 pm

TEACHER’S PERSPECTIVE – EFFECTIVE CLASSROOM MANAGEMENT  

You’ve probably heard it said before, “Teaching isn’t a career; it’s a calling.” Many teachers have lifelong dreams, beginning in their formative years, of standing in front of a classroom and molding the young minds of tomorrow. Then they grow up, the degree and certification are obtained, and they’re ready for their first year of school. They come into the classroom with high expectations, hopes and ambitions. Unfortunately, they are often left in bewilderment as they are locked in the classroom for numerous hours per day with thirty plus students; all with different academic and behavioral needs. What happened to the excitement of molding the young minds of tomorrow? Has it been a breakdown of the relationship between teacher to student? Is the classroom size having a dire effect upon the teacher student relationship? Have the mores and ethos of society drastically changed, or have we faltered from our calling? 

A teacher’s dedication to providing excellent classroom management through developing relationships and mutual respect with his/her students is the key to the success of both the students and the teacher in the classroom. It is a collaboration of professionals, parents, teachers, and the students themselves that enhance the learning environment. 

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Textish Counselling – Part 2

Posted by: Dawn Schell on July 30, 2012 2:30 pm

As I mentioned in my last posting I am sharing a number of studies or projects where text messaging is being used in counselling.

One interesting application was Project O, based in Singapore.  This project was designed for students doing their “O” level exams and was launched to 40,000 O-level students through 163 secondary schools. The aim of the project was to assist students in coping with exam anxiety.   Social Workers and educational psychologists provided email counselling and an SMS buddy support service.   As students were preparing for their exams they could send text message to Project O and receive immediate support.  

Youthline, a New Zealand helpline for young people, starting using text-based counselling in December 2004.  As mobile phones and text-messaging became more widely accepted they found youth increasingly requesting text-messaging as an option for discussing their concerns. Early on Youthline’s suggestion to counsellors was to encourage youth to phone in after 5-6 text message exchanges.   These are a few of the responses from youth.

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Culturally Sensitive Counselling

Posted by: Priya Senroy on July 30, 2012 2:24 pm

Fellow blog readers.

Australia is becoming an increasingly diverse multicultural nation where Australians of all different cultural influences constitute their new reality. With these changes come the challenges for therapists and counsellors who will need to accommodate this change in their therapeutic work. Cultural diversity poses a challenge both to the therapist who provides the service and for the individual who is seeking counselling services.

With this opening, the article listed below shares some of the ideas behind offering culturally sensitive counselling.

http://www.psychotherapy.com.au/InterfaceAugust2008.pdf




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