What is it about faith that draws so many towards a higher being and a desire to be “enlightened”? Children are much more impressionable when expressions of faith are displayed, whether inwardly and/or outwardly. During this time of year, we hear songs of praise, see images of devotion, and hear the clamoring of religious words being spoken in the halls, synagogues, temples, and churches. Faith is an abundant aspect of life.
THE THERAPEUTIC ENVIRONMENT
Does faith enrich a child’s experience of life? In the field of psychotherapy, counselling, and psychology, faith was historically considered a taboo subject, something we left for parents to embark upon. As a graduate student, I recall having been told countless times that “faith is something that we don’t tread upon,… or if we do, we tread lightly.” Moreover, if a patient desired to speak of their faith; we should walk cautiously through this minefield, always emphasizing the patient’s statue of faith.
If we are to plunge into the life of a person, should we not also be learning about their faith’s values, morals and ethics? Why is it that we resist speaking about faith in our clinical practices? Are we afraid that our own faith might come under scrutiny? Of course, we are not to testify or discuss our faith during therapy.
Ironically, discussions we have with our patients in therapy, have a way of burrowing their way into our conscience mind beyond the therapeutic session. Faith happens to be one of those conversations that I have had countless times with fellow practitioners. I have found practitioners who either do not feel comfortable having such conversations with their patients; or they allow their personal foundations of faith to embark upon the patients; or they have a bitter feelings when discussing faith; or they are completely neutral. If a therapist is wavering on their own foundations of faith, or if they are incapable of allowing the patient’s foundations of faith to be the center piece; they should step aside; referring this patient to someone who maybe unbiased towards faith.
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