{"id":9661,"date":"2016-06-03T12:02:26","date_gmt":"2016-06-03T16:02:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ccpa-accp.ca\/?p=9661"},"modified":"2016-06-03T12:02:26","modified_gmt":"2016-06-03T16:02:26","slug":"emotional-disconnection-like-inflammation-body-hurts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ccpa-accp.ca\/fr\/emotional-disconnection-like-inflammation-body-hurts\/","title":{"rendered":"Emotional Disconnection is like Inflammation of the Body—It Hurts!"},"content":{"rendered":"

When couples experience emotional disconnection it is like a virus that invades the body and spreads. It is painful and sometimes long lasting and chronic. It is more difficult to clear up after it has invaded the entire body, but it is possible! Like any unwanted invader, it must be noticed, and dealt with, and have the proper antidote. The antidote is creating continuous \u201cmoments of connection and bonding\u201d between the couple; keeping them immune.<\/p>\n

Over thousands and thousands of years relationship bonding has been known as an ancient primal need. It carries within it a fundamental system built to assist human survival. It has been attachment science that has demonstrated that infants who do not receive human touch do not thrive. Throughout the human lifespan and even into the last stages of life, studies have shown men have shorter life spans without a mate. The evidence is \"closeness\"<\/a>there, that attachment is not only essential for human survival, but integral to optimal health and wellness. Therefore, why it is very important to understand how emotional disconnection between two people can be harmful.<\/p>\n

Two people that are bonded are a system of attachment. Each person integrates \u201cself\u201d into the system and it becomes \u201cone\u201d, but interdependent on the other. Secure-based relationships have this well-established attachment system that allow for hardwiring, or fixed connection to each other. It makes for a strong emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual connection and a strong knowing that each one can depend and trust the other.<\/p>\n

Emotional disconnected partners have less of secure base or attachment to the other due to ongoing \u201cbond ruptures\u201d. These bond ruptures create emotional and physical distance, insecurities, self-doubts, emotional pain, and continue to erode the couples system of attachment. The couples\u2019 primal need is not met and the relationship becomes an insecure-base of indifferences.<\/p>\n

One of the main strategies to create a secure-based relationship is to stop bond ruptures that create gaps and distance between the couple. How to do this, is by doing the exact opposite. By using proximity and reaching out to your partner you have them notice that felt sense of connection and safety. Partners long for attachment and a simple turning and reaching for your partner whether that be in loving words or a physical gesture, the positive, connective energy is the same. When you seek closeness with your partner you stop the \u201cinflammation invasion\u201d and create a safe haven again. It does take time.<\/p>\n

Danielle Lambrecht Counselling 2016 \u00a9<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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