{"id":5436,"date":"2012-05-08T17:03:02","date_gmt":"2012-05-08T21:03:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ccpa.scottbuckingham.ca\/blog\/?p=2083"},"modified":"2015-07-03T15:55:33","modified_gmt":"2015-07-03T19:55:33","slug":"parental-expressions-of-love-and-affection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ccpa-accp.ca\/fr\/parental-expressions-of-love-and-affection\/","title":{"rendered":"Parental Expressions of Love and Affection"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><a href=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Drs-Brown-Love-and-Affection.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2085\" title=\"Drs Brown Love and Affection\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Drs-Brown-Love-and-Affection-206x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"206\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>\u00a0Love means not ever having to say you\u2019re sorry<\/em>.<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ~ Erich Segal<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0As parents, we may recall our own parent\u2019s physical and verbal expressions of affection.\u00a0 Becoming parents changes our perceptional lenses, shifting our previous views and expressions of affection.\u00a0\u00a0 As a parent, we are looking through a lens of discovery evaluating what is appropriate and what is inappropriate.\u00a0 How do we determine what is appropriate or inappropriate? Who\u2019s to say that my perceptions of affection are correct, while your perceptions are incorrect?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Should there be standards for gauging various forms and degrees of affection?<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>APPROPRIATE FORMS OF AFFECTION AND LOVE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>The greatest thing you\u2019ll ever learn is to love and be loved in return.<\/em>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ~ Natalie Cole<\/p>\n<p>As a parent, you should strive to set guidelines of\u00a0 what is appropriate. In healthy relationships, parents should feel comfortable displaying suitable forms of affection.\u00a0 Children should never feel at odds with displays of parental affection.\u00a0 If parents begin displaying appropriate and healthy forms of affection when a child is young, then when they mature they will have mental images of a healthy relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>INAPPROPRIATE FORMS OF AFFECTION AND LOVE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Love should be a vehicle allowed to travel without limitations .<\/em>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ~ Marvin J. Ashton<\/p>\n<p>Children are sponges, soaking up every verbal and nonverbal interaction.\u00a0 If children are shown displays of affection that are only appropriate for the bedroom, then their childlike minds will infer that this is an appropriate act for any age.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Parents should consider how, when, and what types of affection they display in front of their children.\u00a0 They should always consider the appropriateness of the type of affection being displayed.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Why? If children feel uncomfortable with the affection being displayed, they may be at odds with their parents.\u00a0 Thus, causing possible internal strife or confusion.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>An objective of parents should be to offer an open line of communication, reassuring children that it is always safe to ask questions or pose concerns.\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cIf parents are attuned to their child, they are sensitive to the child\u2019s signals&#8230;\u201d (Hendrix and Hunt, 2004, p. 140) Therefore, alerting parents to any behavioral changes or attitudes that may occur.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>MARRIAGES LACKING AFFECTION<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.<\/em>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ~ Mother Teresa<\/p>\n<p>Marriages that lack affection are often stagnate, lacking personal flow between the couple. What causes stagnation? In some cases, the marriage has evolved from a highly affectionate and interactive relationship to a relationship lacking of expressions of affection because of interpersonal trials and tribulations.\u00a0 In other cases, the \u201ccouple,\u201d have never known such a bond.\u00a0\u00a0 People often have images of what they are seeking when they enter a relationship.\u00a0 \u201cUnfortunately, for many of us this picture is highly idealized or romanticized and bears little resemblance to who is actually to marry.\u00a0 In marriage, \u2018the honeymoon is over\u2019 is the pop phrase for the difference between the idealized person we hoped was our mate and the real person who, shortly after the marriage, we \u2018discover\u2019 is our mate.\u201d (Glasser and Glasser, 2000, p. 67)\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Idealizing and romanticizing is similar to fueling your body with candy bar; while your body uses the sugars from the candy bar to boosts its energy level, in time the fuel sloughs off leaving your body feeling depleted of energy.\u00a0\u00a0 Unfortunately, when a relationship is based on \u201cfalse pretenses,\u201d you will soon begin to discover that the foundations of your relationship are sloughing off\u00a0 leaving little attractiveness and cohesiveness.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>THE IMPORTANCE OF PARENTAL EXPRESSIONS OF LOVE AND AFFECTION <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.<\/em>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0~ Roy Croft<\/p>\n<p>Children who are taught appropriate forms of affection early on, have an internal barometer that is capable of measuring and forecasting what is appropriate and inappropriate in future relationships.\u00a0 When parents offer a healthy expression of love and affection, they guide their children down pathways of appropriateness.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>STYLES AND EXPRESSIONS OF AFFECTION <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.<\/em>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0~ Morrie Schwartz<\/p>\n<p>To begin, we must acknowledge that affection and the expressions of our love have cultural significance.\u00a0 Whether we are flirting, hugging, kissing, holding hands, or offering subtle nonverbal or verbal gestures or communication; expressions of love and affection are influenced by societal images and ideologies.\u00a0 It is prudent that we are aware of the appropriate and inappropriate displays of affection within our society.\u00a0 If we teach our children to outwardly display a form of affection that is deemed culturally inappropriate, we are setting our children up for possible conflicts and potential hardships.\u00a0 We should be sensitive to the culture with which we live.<\/p>\n<p>Individuals who purposefully display affection through either holding hands, hugs, kissing, flirting, or some other nonverbal or verbal gesture or communication; are more apt to have healthier forms of communication.\u00a0 For it is the purposeful expression that reinforces the relationship\u2019s core foundations of trust and intimacy.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Children should be witnesses of parental affection.\u00a0 They should learn what is appropriate and inappropriate through the verbal and nonverbal interactions of their parents.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Author:\u00a0\u00a0 Dr. Asa Don Brown, Ph.D.<\/p>\n<p><strong>REFERENCES<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Glasser, W., Glasser, C. (2000) <em>Getting together and staying together, Solving the mystery of\u00a0\u00a0marriage<\/em>. New York, New York:\u00a0 HarperCollins<\/p>\n<p>Glasser, W. (1995) <em>Staying together, A control theory guide to a lasting marriage.<\/em> New York, New York: HarperCollins<\/p>\n<p>Hendrix, H., Hunt, H. L. (2004) <em>Receiving love, Transforming your relationship by letting yourself be loved<\/em>. New York, New York:\u00a0 Atria Books<\/p>\n<p>Reiser, P. (1994) <em>Couplehood<\/em>. 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