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June 2, 2015<\/p>\n

Self-care has become a hot topic within the realm of counselling, and rightfully so. As counsellors we are witness to an incredible amount of pain, loss, trauma, and a myriad of other emotions. In order to forge a positive therapeutic alliance with our clients it is important that we as counsellors are in a place of wellness so that we can bring our own strength into the counselling relationship to assist our clients by asking those hard questions, and listening without judgement. In my own experience I find that I often don\u2019t know that I need to indulge in self-care until I finally do it. Once immersed in a self-care activity it becomes strikingly apparent that, boy, did I need it! Last week I had the privilege of spending three and a half days at the CCPA National Annual Conference in Niagara Falls. It might sound odd to equate attending a busy, mentally taxing conference with self-care, but I can assure you that is exactly what it was. This is an interesting point to consider \u2013 self-care needs to be tailored to the individual. Not everyone will find the same activities rejuvenating or restful.<\/p>\n

Currently I am working as a Career Counsellor in an Ontario university. Although I have seen some attitude change, I believe that there is a belief that career counselling is different from personal counselling. I\u2019ve heard colleagues in non-counselling roles indicate that career counselling was the \u201clight\u201d side of counselling. I suppose in some instances this may be true. However, as a career counsellor I can attest to the fact that the clients that join me in my office are often experiencing emotions linked to loss, grief, disappointment, confusion, frustration and shame. Over the past several months I have seen students \u2013 both at the undergraduate and graduate level \u2013 arriving in my office and sharing stories of financial crises, marital separation, he\"niagara-falls-113525_640\"<\/a>alth concerns, stress and anxiety, familial pressure to succeed, and suicidal ideation. The number of instances where I have asked the student sitting in front of me \u201care you planning on harming yourself?\u201d is now so high I\u2019ve lost track. The idea that career counselling is \u201clight\u201d counselling does not align with the experience I have had throughout my career.<\/p>\n

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At the CCPA conference I connected with fellow career counsellors and practitioners who validated the experience of \u201cheavy\u201d career counselling that has been my reality. For me, validation is a powerful means by which to bolster my own resilience and motivation. During the Conversation Caf\u00e9 portion of the conference I was able to attend a brief session hosted by Life Strategies where \u201c10 Ways That Career Counselling is Personal Counselling\u201d were discussed. Thank you, Life Strategies.<\/p>\n

There are many aspects to a conference that, for me, foster self-care. Attending sessions and keynotes allowed me to reflect on my daily counselling practices, and collect new tools and a renewed strength to provide the students in my office with a stronger, more empathic version of myself. Winning a Hershey\u2019s gift basket as a door prize certainly contributed to my sense of rejuvenation as well!<\/p>\n

Would you believe me if I said that spending three and a half days surrounded by likeminded professionals was inspiring? Because that\u2019s how it felt. I left Niagara Falls with a skip in my counselling step, feeling energized and refreshed. My passion for the field of counselling having been newly ignited. It\u2019s amazing how engaging discussions of best practices and research findings mixed with socializing among professional peers can impact us. Self-care \u2013 for some it might be yoga or meditation. For this counsellor, it\u2019s hitting the conference circuit with my fellow counsellors. I\u2019ll be counting down the days until the next national conference. See you in Montreal!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

June 2, 2015 Self-care has become a hot topic within the realm of counselling, and rightfully so. As counsellors we are witness to an incredible amount of pain, loss, trauma, and a myriad of other emotions. 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